When you're days or hours away from a first date, theres an age-old dilemma that never goes out of style. The choice on what to wear, what to say and where to go? For some people, they have a fixed restaurant, eatery or relaxation centre, garden or park where they take their dates others decide only a few days to their date. Bottom line is, this are not the key issues to consider when going on a first date. The key issue to consider remains "will there be a connection between you and your date? Where there be any need for another date? this two questions are basic and your answers should depend on the following
Take them to lunch. It represents less pressure on the part of both parties on the date if the meeting is taking place in the daytime. Not only is it light out, but lunch usually brings with it inherent time limits—a key component just in case you two don’t hit it off and are looking for the escape hatch soon after getting together. Coffee or ice cream. is a good lunch philosophy and dials it down even more. Although, quite famously, when someone asks, “Wanna come in for coffee?” they don’t always mean coffee, in this case, meeting over coffee or an ice cream cone implies little pressure and more of a breather until (if) you two are able to reach a greater comfort level with one another.
A Concert. If you both have similar tastes in music, whether it’s rock, hip-hop or classical, then concert tickets might be a good point to start off your potential relationship. Like a ballgame, you’d be meeting in a public place with lots of people around and a common point of interest to generate conversation.
Movie. The movies are a reliable go-to choice for a first date. You could also combine the movie with suggestions the suggestions above or you could hang out at home with a DVD movie choice, saving the gas and the money, but upping the ante in terms of possible first-date tension.
Picnic. Enjoy the great outdoors by packing a picnic lunch and heading to the park to get to know each other. It’s breezy, casual and a nice chance to connect without having to tip a waitress or concern yourself with the niceties of dining out.
The zoo. If you both like nature and wildlife, a visit to the zoo can be just as much fun with a first date as it is with a wide-eyed child.
10. Be active. Always remember to take your first date to a place where you two can do something, hopefully having fun, and you both might enjoy the dynamic of a plan that involves something other than sitting across a table or in a theater or concert hall with one another.
These tips are no guarantee of date success. Just relax, don’t be dull, and, again, make sure you have enough money on hand.
Good luck.
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