In Africa, every young girls major fear is the fear of being single and being unable to find a life partner. Especially those stretching into their late twenties and thirties.
I have seen countless number of Naija spinsters visit many prayer houses to seek spiritual guide and advice just to be a Mrs. and while so many will quickly come out to say they are unperturbed,the truth is that deep inside of them they hope that they just find the “right man” fast enough and start raising a family before reaching their menopause age.
Many ladies do not need prayer and fasting and in most cases,there is no spiritual attack from anywhere but these ladies are their own pitfalls and the simple truth is that 90% of unmarried ladies in their late 20s and 30s have no business still remaining single.
Many African men today categories some women as wife materials and others are girlfriend
I have seen countless number of Naija spinsters visit many prayer houses to seek spiritual guide and advice just to be a Mrs. and while so many will quickly come out to say they are unperturbed,the truth is that deep inside of them they hope that they just find the “right man” fast enough and start raising a family before reaching their menopause age.
Many ladies do not need prayer and fasting and in most cases,there is no spiritual attack from anywhere but these ladies are their own pitfalls and the simple truth is that 90% of unmarried ladies in their late 20s and 30s have no business still remaining single.
Many African men today categories some women as wife materials and others are girlfriend
Can you marry a struggling man who has no regular job?
Am sure some ladies are already shouting "GOD FORBID", but please let me ask you”why date a struggling guy when you have no plans to marry him?” strange and foolish i must say.
It is important to know that as long as that man is not lazy,his break through will come and must come.How many ladies have given up an affair because they feel the guy has no job just to realize a year latter that he is gainfully employed or he has started a profitable business and they start feeling bad for not being patient enough.
Ok what is even the guaranty that the ones who have good jobs or business can not experience a crazy turn around? many ladies have lost their chance with a vibrant vision driven man just because they are waiting to say yes to a man who has a job rather than for them to also find something doing that will make them financially independent while the guy has enough space to pursue his dreams.Believe it or not 95% of the rich or successful guys you see today have passed through a struggling phase.
Can you have a very low budget wedding?:
Now i want every reasonable lady reading this to understand that marital union and marriage ceremony are 2 different things. Weddings and Marriages are two different things, while the weddings last for a day, the marriage last for the rest of your lives.
Most times when you hear words like “my guy is not ready yet for marriage” what this simply implies is that the guy is NOT READY FOR A BIG MARRIAGE CEREMONY and not that he is not mentally,psychologically and emotionally ready but because our young ladies are overwhelmed with that one day celebration,they will never ever plan any wedding with a man who does not have the money to give them a flamboyant wedding and this is one major reasons why many ladies remain single for a very long time.
Have you looked around to see many graduates still struggling in their 30s with no assurance that a job or business will come up tomorrow? Are you among the myopic ladies who get carried away by a flamboyant wedding ceremony rich parents organize for their children?
Am sure some ladies are already shouting "GOD FORBID", but please let me ask you”why date a struggling guy when you have no plans to marry him?” strange and foolish i must say.
It is important to know that as long as that man is not lazy,his break through will come and must come.How many ladies have given up an affair because they feel the guy has no job just to realize a year latter that he is gainfully employed or he has started a profitable business and they start feeling bad for not being patient enough.
Ok what is even the guaranty that the ones who have good jobs or business can not experience a crazy turn around? many ladies have lost their chance with a vibrant vision driven man just because they are waiting to say yes to a man who has a job rather than for them to also find something doing that will make them financially independent while the guy has enough space to pursue his dreams.Believe it or not 95% of the rich or successful guys you see today have passed through a struggling phase.
Can you have a very low budget wedding?:
Now i want every reasonable lady reading this to understand that marital union and marriage ceremony are 2 different things. Weddings and Marriages are two different things, while the weddings last for a day, the marriage last for the rest of your lives.
Most times when you hear words like “my guy is not ready yet for marriage” what this simply implies is that the guy is NOT READY FOR A BIG MARRIAGE CEREMONY and not that he is not mentally,psychologically and emotionally ready but because our young ladies are overwhelmed with that one day celebration,they will never ever plan any wedding with a man who does not have the money to give them a flamboyant wedding and this is one major reasons why many ladies remain single for a very long time.
Have you looked around to see many graduates still struggling in their 30s with no assurance that a job or business will come up tomorrow? Are you among the myopic ladies who get carried away by a flamboyant wedding ceremony rich parents organize for their children?
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