Sunday, December 6, 2015

Here's The Thing About Dating Introverts

Introverts are perceived as shy people. This is not entirely true. People generally perceive introverts as unsocial, keeping to oneself, and the likes, introverts are flesh-and-blood people who are merely social in their own way. Unlike extroverts, they find the initial ice-breaker conversations with new people daunting and uncomfortable. However, not all introverts are uncomfortable in social situations.
Many get along just fine after overcoming the initial hesitation. Others, on the other hand, like to hang out with the extroverts as they take on the heavy lifting part in their social workouts!

Introverts have very good control of their emotions and are sometimes the most difficult people to love, during my university days, i dated an introvert for almost four years, it was difficult, hunting and fierce. What made those times regrettable was her attitude towards disagreements and issues that arose, she will never talk back or bring any suggestions to the table, the entire relationship was upon me. As we know, Introverts and extroverts have a high affinity for each other.
 
       Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License


But while dating an introvert, it is worthy of note that the extrovert has to make the first move every time, be it for a kiss or a cuddle.This can be hunting since sometimes we want the other person to make the first move, well, sorry to disappoint you, your introverted lover willl always wait for you to make that move. This doesn't matter, if it works for you, stick to it and dont forget what matters is this person loves you, since introverts are the most faithful lovers.
<script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script>
<!-- calebsenda_sidebar-right-1_AdSense1_1x1_as -->
<ins class="adsbygoogle"
     style="display:block"
     data-ad-client="ca-pub-1515699390181592"
     data-ad-slot="2583539862"
     data-ad-format="auto"></ins>
<script>
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});
</script>When you find and what style of relationship works for you two, adopt it and stick to it.

No comments:

Post a Comment